The FAI made the seven-a-side game compulsory in the 90's following a successful pioneering scheme by the North Dublin League, however Ray insists that the kids are not reaping the benefits of smaller game.
"I was under the illusion that the small-sided game was meant to be non competitive and a purely training and development game," said Ray.
"But if you go out on a sideline and watch these kids playing, you'd swear it was life or death. The parents and managers are screaming at the kids, and it's not all encouragement. It's all about winning and the kids are put under unfair pressure."
Ray believes Ireland should follow the example set by leagues in England, where parents have less involvement. "In England parents are not allowed to surround the touchline shouting at the kids. They are only allowed on one side, while the coaches are on the other.
"When we first started the seven-a-side game, kids were given certificates, but because other leagues were giving medals out we had to do the same."